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Who is my destiny? Fortune telling online. How to understand that this is your person by fate

This fortune-telling can predict fate, make a decision, choose a tactic of behavior, and perhaps even help discover previously hidden qualities in oneself that were not even suspected. In addition, you can tell fortunes not only for yourself, but also for any person you are interested in.

For fortune telling, you will need a 36-card deck. The deck must be thoroughly mixed and, without looking, pull out at random any 3 cards that will represent the past (note: if you are playing solitaire for yourself, cards should be pulled out of the deck with your right hand, if for another person - with your left).

The pulled out cards are laid out in a horizontal row (all cards are laid out face down). Then 3 more cards are drawn, which should be laid out exactly under the first row. These cards will represent the present. In the same way, under the second row there is a third row, which is responsible for the future. At the end, we remove the tenth card from the deck, called a fortune (this card should be taken out with your left hand if you are telling fortunes to yourself, and with your right hand if it is for someone else).

To make it easier to understand solitaire, let's label the cards with letters. In the top row, representing the past, let the card that was drawn first from the deck be called “A”. The second card is “B”, the next one is “C”. In the second row (present) there will be cards “G, D, E”. In the third (future) - “F, 3, I.” We denote the fortune card with the letter “K”. Please note that card “A” represents the most distant past, and card “B” represents recent events. Next, the “F” card is the near future, and the “I” card is the distant future. The first vertical row “A, G, F” is associated with the family. Row “B, D, 3, K” - with the closest and most beloved people. Row “B, E, I” - with friends, colleagues, others.

For some lucky women, to understand that the man to whom they are drawn is in fact their destiny, it is enough to remember their dreams. For those who have the gift of foresight or see prophetic dreams, the man of their life appears in a dream in advance. True, between sleep and the appearance of this man, 10 or 15 years can pass. However, if this is truly your destiny, such dreams are not forgotten.

How can you understand that this particular man was sent by Fate itself, and that only with him will you be truly happy? There are other signs too. This is what we will talk about today.

Just let’s immediately decide that at a certain stage, feelings for such a man should be mutual, because only in this case can we say that the meeting with this man is predetermined from above.

Non-random chance meeting

The “first bell” that this person in your life is not just a random episode is the signs given to you. For example, even before you meet, you can constantly run into this person in different places - on the street, at work, in the company of friends, where he accidentally ended up 5 minutes before your arrival or came up to ask what time it was when you were already there. And it also happens that you lived with this person in the same house for many years, you were even friends in childhood, and then he moved. You were a little sad and forgot about him, and after a few years or decades he meets you again and again in the same yard, or you meet him with enviable regularity in the entrance, although he does not live there, and sometimes comes to visit his grandmother or friend.

The same sign of a man’s “chosenness” can also be a situation when you dated this person for some time, but broke up for some objective or subjective reasons. Moreover, as it seemed to both of you then, they parted forever. However, after a year, two or ten, you meet him again and realize that all these years you have not lived, but existed, that you are drawn to each other like a magnet, and both of you cannot do anything about this attraction. And most importantly, you don’t want to do anything. It was not in vain that fate brought you together again - it gives you both another chance to see what you were both blind to a few years ago. Or they were simply not ready to realize that they had already found the one destined for you by Fate, and that there was no point in looking for anyone else.
Well, and, perhaps, the most “talking” sign of Fate is if in a relationship with this man, every time, again and again, as if in a dream, you return to the place where you made some mistake. That is, Fate, over and over again, creates and models similar situations until you correct this mistake, admit to yourself that you want to be close to this man, and for this you are ready to do anything. And only when you heed the promptings of Fate, when you correct your mistake, your relationship with this person begins to develop further and become very harmonious. Fate simply does not allow you to part with him, but leads you to ensure that the relationship continues and develops.

And, by the way, if all your efforts and aspirations to be with some person are smashed against the wall of supposedly random circumstances, if something constantly happens that prevents you from meeting him (spending the night together, going on vacation together, going to the registry office ), then stop going against Fate, because it is obvious that this is not your person.

Signs that he is your destiny

The most striking indicator that this man is meant for you is the feeling that you have known him all your life. You feel a kinship of souls, you understand the motive of any action of your beloved, you are not tormented by understatement, doubts are alien to you. And most importantly, this man feels the same.

It’s easy and calm for you to be around your lover; communicating with him is as natural to you as breathing. You do not strive to constantly analyze your relationship with him, since everything is already clear to you.

You are not looking for what you can forgive a man for, and what you shouldn’t forgive for. Your chosen one simply does not give you a reason for such thoughts, since hurting you is as unbearable and unthinkable for him as deliberately hurting himself.

Another sign is that when this man is not next to you, everything starts to fall apart for you, nothing works out, even the most basic things become insurmountable difficulties. And only with him are you ready for any achievement. When he is around, everything immediately becomes right. And only then do you realize that you are living life to the fullest and can “function” fruitfully.
With the person who is destined for you by Fate, you not only always have something to talk about, but it is also very comfortable to remain silent. You and he never find yourself in a situation where you struggle to find words or look for a topic to talk about. Everything happens in a completely natural way, since both of you always have something to discuss. And if suddenly you both fall silent, this is not an awkward pause that you want to immediately interrupt and fill with something, but a process of unity of souls. Even if you both are silent, the mental connection between you is not interrupted, you are silent in unison.

With the person destined for you by Fate, you definitely have common interests. Moreover, the fact that you both enthusiastically have sex with each other does not belong to common interests. If your relationship with this person is based only on sex, then this is anything but destiny. Sooner or later, passion subsides, and if nothing connects you with this person anymore, you begin to see his shortcomings too clearly. And it gets more and more annoying every time. Sexual desire has faded, there is nothing to talk about, everyone withdraws into their own life. And from the union called a couple, there is nothing left except two essentially lonely people.

No, you certainly cannot assume that sex means nothing. If you do not live with your man in the image and likeness of Blok and his wife or the heroes of Chernyshevsky’s work “What is to be done?”, that is, if you are normal modern people and do not equate love with platonic, high relationships, then you cannot do without. After all, the union of bodies is no less important than the union of souls. After all, nature and God gave us attraction to the opposite sex for procreation (not to mention the pleasure we experience). And if you, while making love, completely dissolve in your man, if you instinctively respond to all his body movements and adapt to his rhythm, and do not think during sex about the fact that you have an extra fold on your stomach or about how to accept a more advantageous position in terms of appearance, then this also indicates that YOUR person is next to you.

Signs of self-deception

How often does it happen that a woman so wants the man she is dating to be her destiny that she begins to invent an ideal picture for herself or deliberately turn a blind eye to obvious “inconsistencies”. She begins to convince herself that this person is destined for her by Fate, and therefore she must do everything to keep him. Or she expects that this man himself will prove to her that he is “chosen”, without giving him anything in return. Here are a few signs that indicate that this is not the one whom providence sent you, but just a “random fellow traveler”:

  • You are interested in a man primarily in his appearance and his financial (social) situation.
  • By and large, you don’t care how this person lives, what he “breathes”, what interests him.
  • You are not ready or do not want to take on his problems or help him with something.
  • You expect a man to give you everything you need, and in return you are not going to sacrifice anything.
  • You are not interested in what this man is talking about, you only pretend to listen to him, and at that moment you yourself are thinking about something completely unrelated. And at any opportunity, turn the conversation to yourself.
  • You will not go to the ends of the earth for this man, unless this end of the world turns out to be, for example, the Maldives.
    This is what concerns your attitude towards a man whom you want to think of as a gift from Fate. But here’s how someone who either won’t stay with you for long or won’t be able to make you happy behaves:
  • The man avoids any responsibility associated with you. He does not undertake any obligations, and if he promises you something, he does not fulfill his promises or fulfills them only after repeated reminders and pressure from you.
  • He doesn't let you into his life because he doesn't see the need for it. He feels equally good both with you and without you. You and this man have no mutual friends, your relatives do not know each other.
  • The man closes down and does not answer your questions regarding what he was doing while you were not around. He equally stubbornly ignores your interest in him and your hints about a more stable relationship.
  • You yourself have to make appointments and arrange dates. Moreover, such a man often refuses an offer to meet, citing some urgent matters or his overwhelming busyness.
  • A man does not take your time into account; he may promise to come or call, but he himself disappears for several days or weeks. And don't think about what it is

The strong connection established between lovers will allow them to very much feel each other’s energy. Looking for an answer to the question, how to understand that this is your person according to Fate, remember how often you, without saying a word, dialed each other’s phone number or at the same time appeared to your loved one in a dream.

How to find out if a person is destined for you

How to understand that he or she is your judge, how to find out that you have met true Love, and have not become another passing hobby for a person, answers to simple questions will help. The main thing is to be honest with yourself and not try to make light of the situation. Test your chosen one:

  • When help is needed, is he nearby or busy with “urgent matters”?
  • Do you discuss difficult or important life issues together?
  • Does he call first if something serious happens?
  • Do you know his relatives and friends?
  • Does your loved one use the expression “we” in conversation?
  • How often do you have to make concessions to him?

You can talk about strong and mutual feelings only if the answer to each of the six main questions is in your favor. If the object of your adoration often demands to “understand him and forgive him,” is in no hurry to introduce you to relatives and friends, and is always busy at the very moment when you ask for help, this is not your person!

Many women think that Love is the ability to sacrifice oneself or the willingness to forgive insults and humiliation. However, the risk that you will simply be used in their own interests is too great. Mutual love involves an exchange of energies and a willingness not only to give, but also to receive something in return. A man who is mutually in love will never demand sacrifices or understanding from you for his problems. On the contrary, he will try to apologize even for something that is not his direct fault. If in a love game you take the role of a victim, then your feelings will soon cool, and your place will be taken by a more cunning rival.

Ritual to find out if he is destiny

Every woman wants to know whether it is worth continuing a relationship with a man, fighting for his love, having a child from him, making plans for the future. A strong ritual that can be performed on any day of the Lunar calendar will give the correct answer to the question. The only restriction is that the ritual cannot be performed on Friday the 13th.

In order to perform the ritual, you need to obtain the hair of your chosen one and purchase a blessed candle in the church. Next, the candle is placed in the center of the table, lit with a match, and the hair of the loved one is taken in the left hand and the spell is whispered:

“Help me, Higher Powers, find out the truth. Give an answer to the question: is it my destiny to (name of beloved) or not? Reveal the truth to me, will this person be with me! Amen"
The man's hair is burned on a candle so that one can smell the smoke. After this, you need to go out into the street and ask the first person you meet any question that requires a “yes” or “no” answer (for example, did he read the latest news in the country today?). If you are answered in the affirmative, the ceremony was successful and your loved one is ready for a long-term relationship. When the answer is “no”, you need to come to terms with the fact that this is not your man according to Destiny.

Who is destined for you

There are many effective ways how to understand a person by Fate and check the authenticity of the chosen one’s feelings. For example, you can try to “let go of the situation” and not remind yourself at all for a while. Next, look at the reaction of your loved one: if he is worried and offers help, he loves and appreciates you, if he does the same in return, and is even offended by where he went, the relationship is “raw” and not worthy of serious attention.

Your subconscious will also tell you how strong the Love is between you. Tell yourself honestly, what do you pay more attention to: his appearance, the opportunity to be with him more often, or the essence of your conversations and the warmth of your relationship? If you are little interested in his hobbies and inner world, then you are deceiving yourself: there is no real love, what attracts a man is his social status and nothing more.

If you want to ask the Higher Powers how long the relationship with a man that you have in reality will last, do such a ritual on the Full Moon. A photograph of a mysterious person is placed under the pillow with the words: “If you love, dream about it; if there is no love, go away and never come back.” I will ask the sky for help, I will invite my beloved into my sleep. Whatever you dream about, so be it!”

After that, go to bed peacefully, and the next morning try to figure out what you dream about. A good sign if you dream about water, a park, a flowering tree, a stork, the aroma of expensive perfume, a pair of shoes or a young moon.

Be wary if you dream of rain, a dolphin, an eclipse of the Sun or Moon of an unusual color, a wedding (your own or someone else's), your own naked body, earth, stones, sand or a dark room without light. If you couldn’t remember the dream at all, it means that the time for a serious relationship with a man has not yet come.

Also, throughout the next day, look closely and listen to the prompts of Fate; perhaps the exact answer to your question will come in a completely unexpected form.

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Fortune telling is a great way to find out your own future, get a warning about possible difficulties and take all measures to avoid trouble.

Fortune telling rules

For any type of fortune telling there are a number of rules, and the more serious the fortune telling, the more features it has. Predicting fate is a complex and extremely serious issue, therefore the performer is simply obliged to follow all existing rules.

First of all, you should always remember that you cannot often guess your fate, especially if you have received a favorable forecast. The fact is that you can, as they say, predict your own destiny, change it with your frequent intervention.

In addition, you should not ask cards about the same thing several times in a row. Having received some answer, accept it, think about it, if it is negative, then take measures to prevent such a development of the situation, and only then can you ask the same question again.

There are times when fortune telling does not give you complete information; if you notice this, then you should not be too insistent in demanding a complete answer to your question, as this can seriously offend higher powers. You should also not forget that there are always things that you simply are not supposed to know about.

How to tell fortunes with playing cards and tarot

Not a single card fortune telling can be explained or interpreted based only on logic; you need to feel the cards, understand what they want to tell you. Trust your intuition, only with its help you can learn to work with cards and always receive complete and truthful information.

For fortune telling, you should always use new cards that do not contain foreign energy. If you chose a playing deck, then, of course, it should not have been used in the game before. Used cards will never give you an honest answer.

Fortune telling with the Lady and the King

Fortune telling is a common type of fortune telling, which is why there are a huge number of such rituals. This is a simple option that does not require any experience or training from the performer.

To carry out fortune telling, you will need a new playing deck. Shuffle the cards thoroughly and remove the top with your left hand towards you. Then you will need to draw one card from the deck at random and, based on its suit, choose the King (for a man) or the Queen (for a woman).

Place the selected card in the center of the table. After this, count 6 cards from the top of the deck, and place the 7th on the table, next to the central one. This procedure must be repeated until there are 10 cards on the table; it is in them that the answer to the question of what awaits you in the future lies.

Suit meaning:
Each suit, like each card, has its own meaning.

  • Tambourines symbolize wealth, prosperity, fun and contentment.
  • Worms - love, truth, honor, loyalty, friendship.
  • Peaks – success, happiness, hope.
  • Clubs - troubles, boredom, loss, scandal.
  • The meaning of the cards in the layout:
  • Ace is a message.
  • The king is a man, a man.
  • Lady is a woman.
  • Jack is a guest, a new acquaintance.
  • Ten is news.
  • Nine – profit or loss (depending on the suit).
  • Eight – strong feelings and events (love, hope, devotion, sadness, betrayal).
  • Seven is the action of a loved one.
  • Six is ​​the road.

The value of each card must be determined depending on its suit. For example, in the standard interpretation, an ace is a message, but what kind of message it is is shown by its suit. The ace of hearts is a love message, the ace of spades is sad, the ace of diamonds is joyful, and the ace of clubs is false. This is true for every card. Since the difference between the values ​​can be subtle, but with serious meaning, it is extremely important to learn to understand this at the level of intuition.

Diagnostics on maps requires some experience. The more often you train, the better.

Complex layout

This is a complex layout in which you need to pay special attention to any, even the most insignificant details. Its veracity fully depends on this.

Take a new deck of playing cards, shuffle them thoroughly, and then remove three cards at a time and look for yours. For unmarried men and women, this is the king and queen of diamonds. For those who are married - the king and queen of hearts. For older people - the king and queen of clubs.

Take your card and remember the other two cards that were in the three with it. Place your card in the center of the table, then shuffle the deck again. From this moment the whole process begins. Throw out all unnecessary thoughts from your head and focus on one thing - your desire to know the future or get an answer to a question that interests you. Now remove the deck to yourself with your right hand and take the top card - it means the person who is now the most important in your life, or the one you will soon meet. In any case, this person has or will have a strong influence on you.

Now place the deck over your card and, without shuffling, remove three quarters of all the cards from above and move them down from the central one, leave a quarter there, move the rest to the left, leave a quarter of the deck there too, and put the rest on the right.
Now take the stack of cards on top and remove the top two cards from it, placing them face up above the card. The same needs to be done with all the stacks, as a result, you will end up with two open cards on each side of yours. These cards signify your immediate future, as well as the most important events.
The cards above the central one represent the future that will happen over the next few weeks.

The cards under the central one represent something that will happen in your life, but it will pass quickly, and it can be either something bad or something good.
The cards on the left are the past and present, and how this will impact your future.
The cards on the right are the most important things that will happen to you, the things that will change your life. You need to pay special attention to them.

It is noteworthy that the same layout can be used not only with playing cards, but also with Tarot cards, and, according to many experienced esotericists, they provide even more complete and accurate information.

Many people want to know their future in order to understand what they should prepare for, what good and bad events will happen, and much more. You can lift the curtain of secrecy with the help of simple but effective fortune-telling, which is carried out with cards, fire and other objects.

Fortune telling and fortune telling

Predictions using candles are simple yet effective methods to find out information on certain issues related to the future. To do this, it is necessary to take into account the behavior of the flame. Fortune telling for women is carried out using a church candle. It is best to conduct it during Christmas time, which will help to get the most truthful result. At midnight, light a candle in front of you, and then carry out the interpretation:

  1. A bright red flame is a sign of change that will bring good luck.
  2. If the flame was dark, then you should expect problems, but do not be afraid, because you will be able to cope with them.
  3. A dark, almost black flame promises serious illness and work problems.
  4. Fortune telling indicates that if the flame is high and even, then you should expect success in life.
  5. A small and weak flame indicates negative influence from the outside.
  6. A wavering flame warns that many different controversial issues will have to be resolved.

Fortune telling on cards

Predictions with cards are the most popular because they provide a chance to receive expanded information. You can use Tarot or a regular deck, which should not have previously been used for the game, since it loses its power. Fortune telling about love and fate should be done alone, so that nothing interferes and allows you to concentrate on the process.

Fortune telling “Is he my destiny?”

While in a relationship, many women thought about whether the man next to them was their soulmate, and what kind of future they should expect with him. To get answers to your nagging questions, you can make a simple Tarot spread. To tell fortunes about the fate of a relationship, mix the major arcana and lay out the cards whose meaning can be found:

  1. No. 1 – describes the current state of a woman.
  2. No. 2 – speaks about the real situation in the relationship.
  3. No. 3 – indicates what unites you with your loved one.
  4. No. 4 – describes the chosen one.
  5. No. 5 – helps to understand whether a man is destiny or not.
  6. No. 6 – describes a future together.
  7. No. 7 is a useful tip for preserving feelings.

Ancient gypsy fortune telling using cards for fate

The predictions given by the gypsies have always been considered true, which is why they are very popular. To make a layout, you need to take a regular deck that has not been used for the game before, otherwise the answer may not be true. To tell fortunes “Gypsy Prediction”, you need to take a deck and remove some of the cards, and then arrange them in four rows of four pieces. It is important to lay out cards, taking one from the top of the deck and the second from the bottom. Values ​​can be found:

  1. The first row is events of the distant future.
  2. Second row - what will happen in the near future.
  3. The third row is a description of the present situation.
  4. The fourth row is events of the past.

Fortune telling using Tarot cards

A lot of information can be obtained through Tarot layouts; the main thing is to be able to correctly interpret the received meaning. There are many different layouts, but we offer one of the simplest options, which involves the use of only three cards. To conduct a Tarot fortune telling, shuffle the major arcana and place three cards in front of you:

  1. The first is used to judge the events of the past that led to the current situation in the present.
  2. Thanks to the second, you can learn about the present, which becomes the basis for the future.
  3. The third describes impending events, but they can be changed if you take certain actions in the present. To complete fortune telling, you need to try to combine all three cards into one picture in order to better understand the situation.

Fortune telling by Lenormand

For predictions, you need to use a special Tarot deck, the meaning of which can be found. You can find out about future events using the “What will happen, will not happen” layout. He gives a detailed description of events, and some points can be changed, while others are a fact. Truthful fortune telling must be carried out alone, laying out the cards as shown in the figure and carrying out the interpretation:


  1. No. 1, 2 and 3 are near-term events and cannot be prevented.
  2. No. 4 and 5 - things that will happen under the influence of a fortuneteller.
  3. No. 6, 7 and 8 – the distant future, which cannot be influenced.
  4. No. 9 and 10 are future events that depend on the fortuneteller.
  5. No. 11 – predestination.

Fortune telling on runes

The proposed layout of the “Witch Doctor’s Wheel” helps to understand and analyze the chain of events that stretch from the past and will lead to events of the future. Accurate fortune telling with runes also helps to understand what lesson can be learned from the current situation, thanks to which the fortuneteller will be able to build a strategy to avoid problems. Take a bag of runes and first ask a question, and then make a layout. The meaning of the runes can be found:

  1. Rune No. 1 is a symbol of the East. Gives a description of past events and actions that led to problems.
  2. Rune No. 2 is a symbol of the West. Gives information about the current situation. In this rune you can also find a vector indicating the development of the situation in the near future.
  3. Rune No. 3 is a symbol of the South. Describes future events if you change your attitude towards the current situation.
  4. Rune No. 4 is a symbol of the North. Allows you to understand what lesson can be learned from the current situation.
  5. Rune No. 5 – center. Gives you a chance to understand what needs to be done to normalize the situation.

Fortune telling according to Pythagoras

The proposed methodology makes it possible to obtain a lot of important information that can influence the future. She describes in detail the nine qualities of a fortuneteller. Thanks to this, it will be possible to understand in which direction to develop, what problems may arise, existing talents, and so on. Fortune telling according to Pythagoras is carried out in several stages:

  1. First, add up all the numbers from your date of birth. Let's take a date as an example. 11/08/1989: 0+8+1+1+1+9+8+9 = 37 – this is the first working number.
  2. To get the second working number, add the digits of the first, that is, 3+7 = 10.
  3. For the third working number, you need to multiply the first digit of the birthday (0 in the example) by 2, and then subtract it from the first working number (37 in the example), you get 37-0 = 37.
  4. The fourth working number is obtained by adding the numbers from the third: 3+7 = 10.
  5. Write down in a row the numbers included in the date of birth: 08111989. Also write down a series of working numbers: 37103710.
  6. Draw a table where you enter the number of digits from both rows, excluding zeros. After this, interpret the meanings.